Why Waiting to Feel Ready is a Lie (and What to Do Instead)

We’ve been conditioned to believe that readiness is a feeling. That clarity will arrive fully formed before we act. But the truth is, waiting to feel ready is one of the most subtle ways fear disguises itself. Readiness isn’t something you wait for, it’s something you build through action. The moment you start showing up, imperfectly and honestly, is the moment you begin becoming the version of you you’ve been waiting for. You create readiness not by hesitating, but by choosing to move anyway.

Whether you’re launching a dream, speaking your truth, or simply reclaiming joy in your daily life, the shift begins when you stop asking, “Am I ready?” and start asking, “What small action can I take right now that aligns with who I’m becoming?” That question alone is powerful enough to break the cycle of self-doubt. Trust this, the version of you you're becoming is not ahead of you. It’s already within you, waiting for permission to lead.